To answer the first question, and I know from personal experience, yes. If they know for SURE they won't get caught, then yes. Actually, that's just me. If I know for sure that I won't get caught, then yes. At least, I used to. Now it's more of a "I know what love is, I'd rather not destroy myself and my significant other in the process of being a total slut, thanks." In general, then it depends on the person. I'd prefer to believe that the good of humanity will save us from destroying ourselves but even I know that's wishing for too much. It's why whenever I wish, the only thing I wish for is for everything to be alright. It's something attainable, and it works. All the fucking time. When is anything NOT alright, anyway? Take into the fact that I do believe strongly in moderation. For the second question: Yeah, I do. I'm not as in a rush as I used to be to get married. I figure if someone wants to marry, then it's because they want that paper that states it. It's not written in stone though, nothing ever is - unless you carve it into the stone itself. Then it is written in stone. xD Back to the topic at hand though - I do believe in marriage. I do believe in the holy matrimony, in saying vows, etc. It's just... if you want something to work, you need to meet at the same level. Compromise. And when you get married, for some reason, compromise goes out the window. So, I'm not in a rush for this.